The Ascent of the Soul: A Journey through the Stages of Bhakti — Part IX: Prema

From śraddhā to bhāva, the sādhaka has walked a long road—marked by longing, discipline, ecstasy, and surrender. But now, in the stage of prema, he arrives at his eternal home: the embrace of love itself.

In Mādhurya Kādambinī, Śrīla Viśvanātha Cakravartīpāda describes prema as the culmination of bhakti’s journey—the flowering of the soul into its svarūpa, the unbreakable, eternal relationship of jīva and Kṛṣṇa.

And Śrīla Ananta Dās Bābājī Mahārāja calls prema “the soul’s final identity”—not merely love for Kṛṣṇa, but being love for Kṛṣṇa.

What is Prema?

Prema is completely pure love for Kṛṣṇa, free from all trace of selfishness, expectation, or even awareness of one’s own enjoyment. It is the eternal svarūpa-śakti of the Lord reflected fully in the heart of the jīva.

As defined in Bhakti-rasāmṛta-sindhu (1.4.1):

sāndrānanda-viśeṣātmā premaś śrī-krṣṇa-vallabhaḥ
— “Prema is the condensed essence of ecstatic bliss, and it is supremely dear to Śrī Kṛṣṇa.”

In bhāva, the soul feels love; in prema, she becomes love.

The Nature of Prema

Prema is:

Immortal – It never fades, and never tires.

Independent – Not bound by rules or cause.

Ever-expanding – It grows even when full.

Kṛṣṇa’s possession – It is not “our” love for Him, but His love within us.

Rādhikā’s essence – For the mañjarī-bhāva sādhaka, prema means complete identification with Her love for Śyāma.


This love does not rest. Even when seeing Kṛṣṇa face to face, the devotee in prema cries: “I have not yet seen Him!”

This is vipralambha, the divine paradox of love-in-separation that intensifies intimacy beyond comprehension.

Symptoms of Prema

Cakravartīpāda and Bābājī Mahārāja outline its symptoms:

Pulaka – Hair standing on end

Aśru – Unstoppable tears

Vaivarṇya – Change in color

Kampa – Trembling

Svara-bhaṅga – Choked voice

Romāñca – Physical ecstasy

Stambha – Paralysis in emotion

Unmāda – Divine madness

Pralaya – Fainting from overwhelming bliss

But more than these is the soul’s complete submersion in Kṛṣṇa’s pleasure. She desires only to serve Him—even if He never looks her way.

As Mahāprabhu cried:

āśliṣya vā pāda-ratāṁ pinaṣṭu mām…
“Let Kṛṣṇa embrace me or trample me—still He is my Lord eternally.” (Śikṣāṣṭaka 8)

This is prema.

Prema in Mañjarī Bhāva

For the sādhaka aspiring in mañjarī-bhāva, prema takes a unique shape:

He feels no desire for Kṛṣṇa’s direct embrace.

His bliss is in Rādhā’s union with Kṛṣṇa.

His identity is completely selfless, immersed in serving Rādhikā’s needs—applying Her kajal, arranging Her meetings, soothing Her heart.

He lives to magnify Rādhā’s prema—the highest love in existence.


Śrīla Bābājī Mahārāja writes: “The prema of the mañjarī is transparent—so pure, that Rādhā’s joy is her only breath.”

This is the pinnacle of Gauḍīya rāgānugā-bhakti: to forget oneself in the remembrance of Rādhikā’s desire.

The Sweet Madness of Prema

In prema, the devotee:

Sees Kṛṣṇa in every tree, cloud, and sound.

Speaks to birds, rocks, or the wind—thinking they carry news of Him.

Cries when hearing His flute—or hearing nothing.

Dances without music, sings without words.

He is mad in love, but his madness is spiritually intelligent, grounded in the deepest transcendental realization.

Even if he is in a crowd, he is alone with Him.

The Siddha-Deha Becomes Real

At this stage:

The devotee’s siddha-deha (spiritual form) becomes not only meditated upon but experienced.

He knows his age, form, dress, voice, and service in Vraja.

He lives simultaneously in the external world and in Goloka Vṛndāvana.

The aṣṭa-kālīya-līlā (eightfold daily pastimes) of Rādhā-Kṛṣṇa unfold in real time in his inner vision.

He doesn’t imagine these things. They happen.

Śrī Rādhā and the Prema-Bhakta

In mañjarī-bhāva, Śrī Rādhā accepts the sādhaka fully:

As Her confidante, privy to Her most intimate thoughts.

As Her assistant, entrusted with Her divine love-seva.

As Her extension, helping Her taste deeper rasa with Kṛṣṇa.

Prema means belonging not to oneself, but to Her entirely.

Kṛṣṇa’s Role in Prema

Kṛṣṇa now becomes:

The beloved,

The object of total surrender,

The playful master of Her moods,

The only truth that matters.


He may appear or disappear, embrace or ignore—but the prema-bhakta’s love does not falter. It only deepens.

No Return

One who attains prema never falls back. His soul is forever linked with Kṛṣṇa in rasa. Even if he appears in the world again, it is only as a nitya-siddha, a prema-rasa-bhakta born to awaken others.

This love cannot be destroyed, dampened, or defiled.

It is Rādhikā’s touch, Mahāprabhu’s benediction, and the jīva’s eternal inheritance.

Conclusion: The Soul’s Final Identity

Prema is not the end.

It is the beginning of eternal līlā, svarūpa-siddhi, and nitya-sevā.

The sādhaka is now the maidservant of Rādhā, living in the groves of Vraja, hearing the flute of Śyāma, holding garlands for Her, and weeping in her humble joy.

She no longer walks the path.

She is the path.

She no longer practices love.

She is love.

And from this ocean, there is no return—only deepening, forever.